I have been thinking about posting this for a couple of days and I wasn’t sure how to put it all together. I am deeply saddened by the loss.
I read a blog post here earlier this week about a young man named Brent Martin. Brent was a young 20-something with an intellectual disability. He was allegedly beaten and killed by three young men ages 21, 17, and 16.
I have been very impressed with some of the innovative ways the story is being shared and Mr. Martin is being remembered. You can read here, here and here about some of the ways people with disabilities, their families and allies are remembering and being affected by this story and the life of Brent Martin.
The work that we do to build communities where people with disabilities and their families are welcomed in, invited to share their stories, and engaged in sharing their gifts is vital work. This is the work of speaking life into a world where too often death is prevalent.
If you wonder why it is important for your church, masjid or synagogue to welcome people with disabilities the truth is that there are too many Brent Martin’s in the world. There are too many people walking down our streets alone with no one to watch out for them.
We live in communities, religious and otherwise, together so that we can be safer, stronger, and better together than we can be alone. I don’t know whether religion was an important factor in Brent Martin’s life and it doesn’t matter to me either way practically. I believe that Brent was created in the image of G-d and G-d mourned when Brent died at the hands of bullies who hit him because he was an easy target.
It is my hope that we can continue to build communities where people are safe, warm, loved and valued for the gifts G-d has given them to share with the world. This work matters and we need each other because this can be an awfully lonely and scary place when we have to go it alone.
I pray today for Brent Martin, his family and all of the other people with disabilities that feel unsafe on the streets of our cities. May we see the world’s loss of Brent Martin as a call to continue the work of community building and community strengthening!
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Update: Dave Hingsburger’s post What Next talks about what we can do with the energy the memory of Brent Martin has generated.