I read this insightful post from Real Live Preacher this morning and it made me think about the ways our congregations do and do not address the issues that face people with mental health diagnoses.
Real LivePreacher has been very open about his journey with depression and his struggle in seeking treatment. I applaud his willingness to speak the truth of his experience and to hopefully provide an opportunity for his readers to “hear” the story of a person who is living his life in the midst of depression. The stories matter!
According to the National Institutes on Mental Health (NIMH) about 1 in 4 people over the age of 18 experience a mental illness in any given year. That’s a huge number.
It is incredibly important for our religious communities to be places where the silence around mental illness and disability is lifted and the truth is told.
Nancy Maris in her essay Carnal Acts makes this point much better than I could ever hope to when she says,
I can subvert its power(the power of shame), I’ve found, by acknowledging who I am, shame and all, and, in doing so, raising what was hidden, dark, secret about my life into the plain light of shared human experience. What we aren’t permitted to utter holds us, each isolated from every other in a kind of solipsistic thrall. Without any way to check our reality against anyone else’s, we assume that our fears and shortcomings are ours alone.
If you are a person in a congregation living with the secret of depression you are most certainly not alone.
There is a trend in some of our denominations to address the issues faced by people living with mental illnesses. Some examples of those efforts can be found:
Union of Reform Judaism- Department of Jewish Family Concerns
Mental Health Ministries
Creating Caring Communities Article- United Synagogues of Conservative Judaism
The Caring Congregation Program- Mission Peak UU Congregation- Freemont, CA
I would be interested to know about other resources readers have found as they sought to be educated around this too oft ignored set of issues?
I hope that these resources assist us in continuing to lift this important issue out of the darkness of ignorance and into the light of communal compassion. And let it be so.